This is a tiny reminder to check in on your wife’s well being. Emotionally, spiritually, and physically. She might be really tired out, but not communicating with you about it very well. It’s quite possible she doesn’t even fully recognize it herself. Women tend to absorb the stress of their family members, and if not careful, they can burn out fast. Your wife might be so capable that even you expect her to handle everything with ease. But she can’t keep abreast that kind of tempo. She requires you to have her back. Don’t let her take on the world because the world isn’t always very kind. Be the buffer.
Don’t let her work her fingers to the bones trying to be all is everybody. This makes for a very miserable spouse, and when the stress starts spilling over, everyone seems her pain.
When people are under a lot of pressure, they are less kind to others. When they feel like they can’t catch their breather, they are able to snap at those closest to them. If you aren’t considering your wife’s requires, don’t be shocked when she isn’t acting adoration towards you. There is an old went on to say that expresses this perfectly: hurting dogs bite. If your wife is being negative and short-tempered, she might be barely holding it all together.
I have a great picture hanging up in my kitchen of a dashing rooster and his lovely hen. The rooster is standing watch next to his teammate looking very serious. Nothing is going to happen to his chicken-wife on his watch. He is on the wall. Above them are the words, “Protect what you love.”
Plain and simple. Guard the gift God gave you.
Make sure she is getting the remainder she requires. Devote her downtime so she can breathe and reflect. Engrave out day for her to spend time with the Lord. Perhaps her periods are so chaotic and demanding, she can’t even hear her own beliefs anymore. Dedicate that poor girl a violate and newborn her a little. If she can’t seem to cope, attain the behavior a little easier for her. If she is screaming at you, try looking at the big picture. Maybe she is so very tired and mood isolated. Everything is easier as a squad. Are you being a teammate? Can she lean on you when she needs assist? If so, BRAVO. If not, don’t complain that your matrimony sucks.
Talk with her about her schedule and see if there is anything she can whittle away. Women are really good at filling every nook and cranny with things to do. They are superheroes at multi-tasking, but eventually, crash and burn. Take off her cute little cape, fold it up, and lock it away in a drawer. Tell her to slow because you am worried about her and crave her to enjoy some peace. She is not to save the day. She is to take a nap.
While you are not her Savior, and shouldn’t carry that onu around, you are there to protect her. She has one knight in glittering armor with skin on in this world. You. There isn’t another person that can make a greater impact in her life. Don’t let significant opportunities slip by. When you love your wife well and make sure she is holding up, she will deeply appreciate you. By putting her first, you will build trust and friendship between you. You will trigger in her sensations of rejoice and gratefulness. Deep down, we all crave somebody to love us and protect us. We want to know we affair. And we want our efforts to be appreciated. This gives us inspiration to keep going. Inspire her!
Look your wife in the eyes. Make sure there is a sparkle. Check in with her and ask her how she is doing. Pray for her. Stroll beside her. Be her friend. Because this might be only the thing she is needing. If her face seems grouchy, perhaps it’s because she is ready to flip out from all study and no play. We all necessity fun every now and then. Including your spouse. She wasn’t put on this land to simply slave away. In fact, she was once a girl. She is all grown up, but in that heart of hers are the same hopes and dreams. I am sure she has set aside many things for her family. This is precious and reflects God’s sacrificial adoration, but she necessity space to slow down and hear God’s voice. She was created for His exaltation , not yours.
I am sorry if this sounds harsh, but it’s very important that you address your wife’s necessities, so she can better care for yours. It’s astonishing how that works out. It’s brilliant.
Pray and safeguard. Watch and listen. In that order.